“For one thing is needful: that a human being should attain satisfaction with himself, whether it be by means of this or that poetry or art; only then is a human being at all tolerable to behold. Whoever is dissatisfied with himself is constantly ready for revenge, and we others will be his victims, if only by having to endure his ugly sight.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche
The biggest barrier between you and the love you want, is an unloved part of yourself.
As long as you keep shunning, criticizing, judging, and hating parts of yourself, you will project those unloved parts onto others.
You will stay stuck in a vicious loop of attracting unhealthy partners who need saving. In short, people who are hurting and who are unable to love you or anyone else.
Or, if you actually do meet a stable partner who is capable of a healthy relationship, you will reject his or her love. You will feel unworthy of them because you have not fully loved yourself first.
Once you get clear on the parts of yourself you've rejected and you embrace all of you, That's the paradigm shift, and it happens quickly. Because once you have that love for yourself, you will have the ability to love and be loved.
All it takes is a conscious commitment and some guidance to shift the unconscious programming that has kept you stuck in the same loop over and over.
When you want to make the change, contact me HERE so we can get you started.
Is a collection of Micah's views regarding men's skills in relationship and their ability to tap into their masculine frame.