Frame is Everything!
What does this even mean?
This one is a bit more complex.
Frame control is your world-view. It is your own set of red colored glasses with which you view the world.
This 3 minute read will give you a new tool to start living the life that you want and she will both love you for it and fall into it with you.
When that happens her desire for you will skyrocket and you'll start to feel that love that we all crave.
Rule #3 of my six week program is “Frame ”
Here’s what that means and why it will transform your relationship.
PROBLEM. . .
If you are not controlling your frame, than who is?
Your frame is the way that you perceive the world. Do you know what you are doing with your life, where you are going?
You have probably heard the idea of having a purpose in life.
Frame incompasses all of that, as well as how you look at politics, money, love, religion and life.
If these concepts are not firmly entrenched in your mind, you can easily fall into her frame.
You live in her reality, because anything can become normal.
What you fail to realize is that frame, like power, abhors a vacuum. In the absence of the masculine frame a woman naturally seeks from a man, her security need forces her to provide that security for herself. If she has to pay the bills, earn the money, make the decisions, authorize her man's actions and deliver punishments. The woman is seeking the security that the man she pair-bonded with cannot or will not provide.
This is very unattractive to all women.
WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE A SHIT. . .
The ability to master frame control is the key that unlocks everything else in life, women, work, leadership, and family. It is the one essential virtue without which all the other virtues are rendered impotent.
Because so many things act against us to pull us out of our masculine center, to throw us off our frame. Our life is a battle to maintain frame control. I fail, I succeed, and I fail again. It is not easy. I want the world to be my idea, but the world fights me every step of the way. These are the enemies of frame control:
1. Your wavering and weak will. No matter how focused you are, you will frequently lose frame. It’s natural. You are not a robot, you are not a mechanical contrivance. You are human.
2. Actions of others. We live in a world where we are buffeted on all sides by people who want to drag us down. Your ability to maintain your masculine center will be attractive to most, but will also invite envy, spite, and hostility from others who are unable to put the work required for self-development.
3. Social pressures. Our culture acts in ways that are hostile to masculinity. You need to remind yourself of this constantly, so you do not lose heart or hope in the struggle. Do not listen to cultural messages that encourage your baser nature.
SOLUTION
You do this by focusing your thoughts and emotions on defeating challenges in your life, even when you are around women.
To act and feel as if you have mastered frame control, you must act and feel as if you can defeat any challenge. You must remain calm, positive, and stoic in the face of negativity.
You need to aim for something higher by focusing on an ideal.
By conquering challenges and creating a new reality, youdo things that were previously thought impossible.
The alpha looks up to nobody, but you are not him so you need to kill your inner beta by learning about and emulating great men.
Unless you are perfect, somebody out there is better than you at the things you strive to do, so you should learn from them.
Men learn from other high quality men. Go out there and find them.
At your church, men's group, Coaches, Consultants, Community leaders.
A hunter never asks it's pray how to catch it. Go ask a hunter!
Get brave and try this out.
I have 10 rules that transform men and the way women look at them in just 5 weeks.
The theme of these rules are to make strong powerful men who build desire in a relationship.
When you’re ready to do things differently and get radically different results, let me know. I’m here for you. I use this myself and the men I’ve helped are blown away by how well it works.
This one is a bit more complex.
Frame control is your world-view. It is your own set of red colored glasses with which you view the world.
This 3 minute read will give you a new tool to start living the life that you want and she will both love you for it and fall into it with you.
When that happens her desire for you will skyrocket and you'll start to feel that love that we all crave.
Rule #3 of my six week program is “Frame ”
Here’s what that means and why it will transform your relationship.
PROBLEM. . .
If you are not controlling your frame, than who is?
Your frame is the way that you perceive the world. Do you know what you are doing with your life, where you are going?
You have probably heard the idea of having a purpose in life.
Frame incompasses all of that, as well as how you look at politics, money, love, religion and life.
If these concepts are not firmly entrenched in your mind, you can easily fall into her frame.
You live in her reality, because anything can become normal.
What you fail to realize is that frame, like power, abhors a vacuum. In the absence of the masculine frame a woman naturally seeks from a man, her security need forces her to provide that security for herself. If she has to pay the bills, earn the money, make the decisions, authorize her man's actions and deliver punishments. The woman is seeking the security that the man she pair-bonded with cannot or will not provide.
This is very unattractive to all women.
WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE A SHIT. . .
The ability to master frame control is the key that unlocks everything else in life, women, work, leadership, and family. It is the one essential virtue without which all the other virtues are rendered impotent.
Because so many things act against us to pull us out of our masculine center, to throw us off our frame. Our life is a battle to maintain frame control. I fail, I succeed, and I fail again. It is not easy. I want the world to be my idea, but the world fights me every step of the way. These are the enemies of frame control:
1. Your wavering and weak will. No matter how focused you are, you will frequently lose frame. It’s natural. You are not a robot, you are not a mechanical contrivance. You are human.
2. Actions of others. We live in a world where we are buffeted on all sides by people who want to drag us down. Your ability to maintain your masculine center will be attractive to most, but will also invite envy, spite, and hostility from others who are unable to put the work required for self-development.
3. Social pressures. Our culture acts in ways that are hostile to masculinity. You need to remind yourself of this constantly, so you do not lose heart or hope in the struggle. Do not listen to cultural messages that encourage your baser nature.
SOLUTION
You do this by focusing your thoughts and emotions on defeating challenges in your life, even when you are around women.
To act and feel as if you have mastered frame control, you must act and feel as if you can defeat any challenge. You must remain calm, positive, and stoic in the face of negativity.
You need to aim for something higher by focusing on an ideal.
By conquering challenges and creating a new reality, youdo things that were previously thought impossible.
The alpha looks up to nobody, but you are not him so you need to kill your inner beta by learning about and emulating great men.
Unless you are perfect, somebody out there is better than you at the things you strive to do, so you should learn from them.
Men learn from other high quality men. Go out there and find them.
At your church, men's group, Coaches, Consultants, Community leaders.
A hunter never asks it's pray how to catch it. Go ask a hunter!
Get brave and try this out.
I have 10 rules that transform men and the way women look at them in just 5 weeks.
The theme of these rules are to make strong powerful men who build desire in a relationship.
When you’re ready to do things differently and get radically different results, let me know. I’m here for you. I use this myself and the men I’ve helped are blown away by how well it works.