Never Supplicate!
That's a strange thing to say.
I know what you're thinking. What the hell is supplication? If you want a definition Google it.
I will show what it looks like.
This 3 minute read will give you a new tool to reach compromise with your mate in a way that makes her feel loved and safe.
When that happens her desire for you will skyrocket and you'll feel the connection you crave.
Rule #1 of my six week program is “Never Supplicate”
Here’s what that means and why it will transform your relationship.
PROBLEM. . .
Her: What do you want to do this weekend?
You: I don't care. What do you feel like doing?
Her: I don't know..... [in a tone of disappointment].
Silence
Her: All you ever want to do is sit on the couch and [insert your favorite escape].
You: I asked you what you wanted to do. I didn't hear any good suggestions from you?
Her: I have been stuck in this house every night this week. I want you to entertain me!
You: I am so tired of this...
And the fight begins.
Do you see what is happening here? If you would have listened to the first question and actually responded, would it have changed the out come?
I believe it would.
When we use pat responses to interact with our mates we are supplicating. We are just saying "what ever you want dear".
WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE A SHIT. . .
Women don't ask questions just to hear their face rattle. When you think about it does your partner ever check in just to fight with you. If she does we have other problems to deal with.
Every time she asks you a point blank question about what you want, she is asking you what you really want. When you tell her what she wants to hear she feels unheard.
This is not how she normally communicates with you.
She is being open to your masculine power, she is asking you to tell her what you want.
SOLUTION
Never Supplicate!
When we listen to the words coming out of their mouths and read a little body language.
Let it process for a second or two and then respond with what we really want.
She then has a solid baseline to work off of. She asked out of genuine want to know.
If you tell her what you want, then she knows! No more mind reading.
Whats the worst that could happen? I really don't believe that women ask these types of question to start a fight.
This is not to say that there are not other question that are asked to check in on the male status. [shit tests]
I believe that women want their men to lead at times.
When they ask you to, by all means take it?
This opens the door for compromise.
What if the conversation went like this?
Her: What do you want do this weekend?
You: I want to mow my yard and play some video games, maybe watch Netflix. Then on Sunday, I want to go get pizza and beers and watch the game.
Her: Oh, Wow. Uhm, why don't we watch the game at home. I could [insert what she wants}
You: Sure! [you make a small compromise]
NO FIGHT!
I know this sounds like bull shit. It will work for you.
You will find that if she cares about you she will come to compromise. She is asking you for it!
Get brave and try this out.
I have 10 rules that transform men and the way women look at them in just 5 weeks.
The theme of these rules is to build desire in a relationship.
When you’re ready to do things differently and get radically different results, let me know. I’m here for you. I use this myself and the men I’ve helped are blown away by how well it works.
I know what you're thinking. What the hell is supplication? If you want a definition Google it.
I will show what it looks like.
This 3 minute read will give you a new tool to reach compromise with your mate in a way that makes her feel loved and safe.
When that happens her desire for you will skyrocket and you'll feel the connection you crave.
Rule #1 of my six week program is “Never Supplicate”
Here’s what that means and why it will transform your relationship.
PROBLEM. . .
Her: What do you want to do this weekend?
You: I don't care. What do you feel like doing?
Her: I don't know..... [in a tone of disappointment].
Silence
Her: All you ever want to do is sit on the couch and [insert your favorite escape].
You: I asked you what you wanted to do. I didn't hear any good suggestions from you?
Her: I have been stuck in this house every night this week. I want you to entertain me!
You: I am so tired of this...
And the fight begins.
Do you see what is happening here? If you would have listened to the first question and actually responded, would it have changed the out come?
I believe it would.
When we use pat responses to interact with our mates we are supplicating. We are just saying "what ever you want dear".
WHY YOU SHOULD GIVE A SHIT. . .
Women don't ask questions just to hear their face rattle. When you think about it does your partner ever check in just to fight with you. If she does we have other problems to deal with.
Every time she asks you a point blank question about what you want, she is asking you what you really want. When you tell her what she wants to hear she feels unheard.
This is not how she normally communicates with you.
She is being open to your masculine power, she is asking you to tell her what you want.
SOLUTION
Never Supplicate!
When we listen to the words coming out of their mouths and read a little body language.
Let it process for a second or two and then respond with what we really want.
She then has a solid baseline to work off of. She asked out of genuine want to know.
If you tell her what you want, then she knows! No more mind reading.
Whats the worst that could happen? I really don't believe that women ask these types of question to start a fight.
This is not to say that there are not other question that are asked to check in on the male status. [shit tests]
I believe that women want their men to lead at times.
When they ask you to, by all means take it?
This opens the door for compromise.
What if the conversation went like this?
Her: What do you want do this weekend?
You: I want to mow my yard and play some video games, maybe watch Netflix. Then on Sunday, I want to go get pizza and beers and watch the game.
Her: Oh, Wow. Uhm, why don't we watch the game at home. I could [insert what she wants}
You: Sure! [you make a small compromise]
NO FIGHT!
I know this sounds like bull shit. It will work for you.
You will find that if she cares about you she will come to compromise. She is asking you for it!
Get brave and try this out.
I have 10 rules that transform men and the way women look at them in just 5 weeks.
The theme of these rules is to build desire in a relationship.
When you’re ready to do things differently and get radically different results, let me know. I’m here for you. I use this myself and the men I’ve helped are blown away by how well it works.